'I told my boyfriend to bonk another woman – but was horrified when he did'
Many women would feel devastated if their boyfriend slept with another woman.
Racy model Ruby Drew admits she was one of them. However, she was the one who encouraged him to do it.
As part of her work as a racy content creator, the brunette beauty sleeps with other women. Things took a turn when the 20-year-old Australian decided to involve her boyfriend, Jakob.
Her partner loves that she sleeps with other ladies, likening it to "Christmas" for him. However, Ruby didn't share the same sentiment when he did.
The couple engaged in a few threesomes, and a tipsy Ruby told her boyfriend to have sex with one of the women they were with. However, she regretted it afterward.
"I was the one that suggested he should try it as I thought it would be hot," she exclusively told the Daily Star.
"I had allowed her to touch him earlier on, and honestly, it didn’t bother me as much as I thought it would. He was making contact with me the whole time and kissing me; it felt like we were sharing that moment together, and I actually quite liked it. It was very intimate.
"So a bit later on, I was like, well, you can try f***ing her. I think it might be hot. He honestly didn’t seem so sure, but I reassured him I was okay, and then he did it.
"It was okay in the moment; I was still very engrossed in the experience, but I definitely didn’t love it then. I think mostly because we didn’t really have any connection in that moment.
"He was looking at her and obviously touching her, and I think that is what made it the hardest.
"Then the next day, I was driving to the gym, and the moment he was doing it and looking down at her just kept popping up in my head, just playing over and over again, and it made me feel sick."
Ruby added, "I had to realize I was the one that told him to do it."
Offering advice to other couples considering such experiences, Ruby recommended being cautious. She said, "It's hard to set up boundaries in these circumstances.
"You change your mind. At the start, you might think you wouldn’t be okay with one thing, but then you realize in the moment you might be.
"I think experimenting with a partner, there’s a lot of trial and error, and sometimes you might try something and hate it, but now you know.
"And who knows, maybe in a couple of years once we’ve done some more, I might become comfortable with the idea of us trying that again; you never know.
"But ultimately, it was my idea, and we tried something new, and it didn’t work out, but we’re okay, and that’s all that matters. It was something I just had to get over."
Ruby began selling racy material online after breaking up with her ex, who disapproved of her previous stripping job. She said, "I was going through a self-love phase when I started my content page, and dating wasn’t my priority.
Despite not focusing on dating initially, Ruby quickly developed feelings for Jakob, and they have been going strong ever since.
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